In preschool, children can engage in competition with his brother who was a baby or toddler. What causes it?
1. Need recognition. At the age of 3-5 years, children already have the desire to excel. He felt more able, more capable, more intelligent than brother or sister, and need to get recognition for it. The preschool will make it even knows achievement awarded (in the form of praise or reward) so that more and raced to keep up with the brother.
2. Not to be outdone. Children do not want to lose. Behavior arises because the child wants to get attention from the "environment" in the vicinity. Do not want to lose this sense will be strengthened when people who are considered "rivals" are people who are closest to him, including his brother.
3. Portion of interest is much reduced. If previously sister hard enough to get attention, along with the presence of younger (infants), attention is gradually receding as divided. Discomfort is what is causing the conflict brother and sister. Brother thought, a little brother culprit that makes the outpouring of parental concern and the environment against reduced.
4. Parental attitudes. Sometimes busy taking care of the little one still in its infancy, making the parents did not give enough attention to the bigger children. Or when there is conflict in older children (older toddlers preschoolers with siblings), parents always defended the younger without understanding the conditions that actually happened. Treatment parents often make comparisons.
1. Need recognition. At the age of 3-5 years, children already have the desire to excel. He felt more able, more capable, more intelligent than brother or sister, and need to get recognition for it. The preschool will make it even knows achievement awarded (in the form of praise or reward) so that more and raced to keep up with the brother.
2. Not to be outdone. Children do not want to lose. Behavior arises because the child wants to get attention from the "environment" in the vicinity. Do not want to lose this sense will be strengthened when people who are considered "rivals" are people who are closest to him, including his brother.
3. Portion of interest is much reduced. If previously sister hard enough to get attention, along with the presence of younger (infants), attention is gradually receding as divided. Discomfort is what is causing the conflict brother and sister. Brother thought, a little brother culprit that makes the outpouring of parental concern and the environment against reduced.
4. Parental attitudes. Sometimes busy taking care of the little one still in its infancy, making the parents did not give enough attention to the bigger children. Or when there is conflict in older children (older toddlers preschoolers with siblings), parents always defended the younger without understanding the conditions that actually happened. Treatment parents often make comparisons.
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