It is appropriate child receives outpouring of love from
their parents. And, there are many ways to show love for children. According to
psychologist Rustika Thamrin, love can not be said with words, but also with
body language such as touch and deeds. However, the need for consistency to
express feelings of love, so that children can develop positive self attitude
in him.
According Windya, there are several ways you can do to
express feelings of love on your children.
1. Accompanied by a touch
Never stop expressing love to your children. As much as
possible accompanied by a gentle touch, hugs, and kisses. For example, "My
dear boy!" while stroking the child's head, or "My dear, I love you
so much," kissing and hugging the child. Behavior and what the old man
does will make children feel deeply loved by his parents.
2. Say it softly
When expressing affection for children, say the words gentle
and sincere as possible. Although still small, but in fact the children are
very sensitive to the sincerity of his parents. Children can learn the meaning
of the sincere words of love through body language or his parents.
3. Caress before bed or while traveling
Upon parting with the child, for example, when you will go
left at home, or before bed, as much as possible to convey your affection as
she gave him a caress or a kiss. This will give confidence to the children that
they are loved, and you will always be there for them. In addition, words of
affection and caresses it also serves to provide safe and comfortable feeling
to them.
4. Intense communication
Reassure your child through the actions that you and your
family loving each other. Ensure that children also feel compassion as part of
an intact family. This will assure the child that they loved, and protect them
from the wrong crowd.
5. Consistent
Realize a sense of affection and love for children is
consistently, though he made a mistake. It is not meant to justify the mistakes
done. If the child made a mistake, give him an understanding that what he was
doing was wrong with a soft but firm tone. Reassure him that although he made a
mistake, you will still love her.
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