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I
wonder why so school-age children often play outside the house. Dr
Weny Savitry Sembiring Psi, MSI have the following five reasons explain the
solution.
1. Do
not have a regular schedule.
Children
who are not accustomed to having a schedule since childhood, finally tends to
use his time in vain. Whenever
she wanted to do something, do instantly without considering anything else. If
he still wants to play, he will continue playing, no matter had not had lunch,
not bathing, not doing homework and so on.
Solution: Create a daily
schedule. If it
was not able, her mother and father can help create. Home
from school, change clothes, lunch, after which a break or a nap. Then,
wake up, shower, if there are no lessons or activities at school, probably
around 1-2 hours, then do homework or schoolwork. Performed
on a regular schedule and will continue to make children get used to. If there were
not tired of reminding the violated.
2. There
are no events of interest.
Lacks
of activities or hobbies that are of interest to children spend their time just
to play.
Solution:
Parents should be keen to see and direct the child's talents or interests. If
the child looks interested in football or music, facilitation to join the
football club or a music school. Oriented
activities such as this is more useful, channeled his interest in a proper way.
3. Lack
of good communication.
Children
who lack good communication with parents have a tendency to always play outside
the home. Parents
who always blame the child, criticized, banned, and so on, or parents who
fought constantly, this will make the child feel comfortable, so there is
opportunity out, he will use it. The
danger, if the child is happier outside the home, he could fall in unhealthy
relationships and even drugs.
Solution:
Try the approach in children, while casually talking to why he always wanted to
play outside the home. Make
this conversation as a casual conversation; do not blame the child or
cornering. If
he does not stand up to blaze with the situation at home, do not be angry, be
self-introspection, do the repairs so that children feel at home again. If
necessary, involve experts, in this case a psychologist, to help people find a
way out.
4. Character
of the child support.
Certain
characters, such as, children with kinesthetic intelligence, generally can not
be told to stay home, he liked the broad field of activities. So it felt like to
always play outside.
Solution:
Look for activities that are beneficial to overcome the excess. Such
as by listing them in sports clubs or extracurricular activities at school. Do
not get because parents do not realize this, that there is actually a fight
every day with the kids, because they feel the child continued to play
outdoors, is not willing to learn, and so forth.
5. No
friends at home.
Children
who are always alone in the house, but living in an environment where many
children her own age, are more likely to be tempted to play with. Every
day after school or evening he heard the other children busy playing outside,
he inevitably comes into play.
Solution:
Prohibit the child from the house at all is definitely not a wise choice. Should
provide clear rules or limits, how long should play, any day, combine with
other solutions such as tutoring include or incorporate it into the club.
