Due to Parents Negative Treatment on Children

  On child shy or bold extremes, usually found to be brain damage. Examples can be seen in children with special needs are divided into two, very shy (passive) or very brave.

Attitude Extreme bold or shy also seen in children who often receive negative treatment of parents. Unwittingly, this treatment can cause a child's brain is damaged.

Keep in mind, in the growth and development, a child's brain nerves are still in the process of interconnected. When the child's parents often yell, scold, or degrading words and deeds rough, and various other unsavory attitude, the soul of the child becomes distressed.

This pressure resulted in the failure of the linkage is broken and the nerve cells of the brain. If you've suffered damage certainly need time to rebuild. Repair was not perfect because the former will take the damage already settled.

In addition, children are often negative addressed will also form a way of thinking that is not optimal. Information received by the child is not going to get to the center of his brain, but only processed in the brainstem alone, making it difficult for him to be able to think logically.

Therefore, it is necessary parenting that can make children happy and confident without him spoiled and not independent. Among other closely and carefully deal with children, spoke with a gentle intonation, and a parent who was able to be flexible in all situations. All this will help your child have a positive experience that will shape the course of development, like any good cognitive mental state.

When to Stop Bath with Kids?

Rules bath together, also naked in front of family members, varies in each person. Some families may regard a young naked and running around without wearing clothes in public if he did not feel embarrassed. Unfortunately the habits of these children can continue when the children have started to adolescence. They could consider this a regular thing, but it's not.

Should lesson about the limits of nudity is starting opposite sex parents and siblings since the child was aged 4 or 5 years. Here are some reasons:

First, the child will soon enter the school and clearly unacceptable nudity in there.

Second, most families impose certain rules of modesty. If the child is still frequent bathing with parents, it could be a while, interest in children to see another person's body gave him problems in other families.

Third, it would be better for children to learn the anatomy of genital relatives and friends of his age rather than see their parents naked. If you agree, children ages 4 and 5 should begin to be taught respect for privacy. Stop bath and shower areas with the children. Close the bathroom door when using the toilet. Close the bedroom door when you dress and suggest they do the same.

Training children Early Financial Intelligence

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Children need to understand money, so as not to grow into a consumerist and materialistic. It is important for parents to train children early financial intelligence.

Child psychologist said financial intelligence can be introduced to children from toddlers. Financial intelligence should be introduced at an early age, since toddlers can so the child can manage the money and take the right decisions about finances.

Materialistic because many children do not develop financial intelligence. The doctrine of this money expansive meaning, rather than simply introducing value for money, but its use.

Benefits of Fasting For Kids

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In the fasting month, have the children been taught how to fast? Even though fasting is required to withstand hunger, thirst, and appetite, but you do not have to worry children will dehydrate the body and stunted development.

7 must have Skills for your kids

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Nutritious foods, healthy body, good education, good manners and good religious instruction to the attention of all parents of children face the world in the future. For each of the parents realize that children do not live with them forever. One time they will mature and start her own life. Well, the parents certainly hope the children will be independent, get a decent livelihood and well received by the environment.

5 Ways to Express Love to your Children

It is appropriate child receives outpouring of love from their parents. And, there are many ways to show love for children. According to psychologist Rustika Thamrin, love can not be said with words, but also with body language such as touch and deeds. However, the need for consistency to express feelings of love, so that children can develop positive self attitude in him.

Five causes of children do not like to stay at home

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I wonder why so school-age children often play outside the house. Dr Weny Savitry Sembiring Psi, MSI have the following five reasons explain the solution.

1. Do not have a regular schedule.
Children who are not accustomed to having a schedule since childhood, finally tends to use his time in vain. Whenever she wanted to do something, do instantly without considering anything else. If he still wants to play, he will continue playing, no matter had not had lunch, not bathing, not doing homework and so on.
Solution: Create a daily schedule. If it was not able, her mother and father can help create. Home from school, change clothes, lunch, after which a break or a nap. Then, wake up, shower, if there are no lessons or activities at school, probably around 1-2 hours, then do homework or schoolwork. Performed on a regular schedule and will continue to make children get used to. If there were not tired of reminding the violated.

2. There are no events of interest.
Lacks of activities or hobbies that are of interest to children spend their time just to play.
Solution: Parents should be keen to see and direct the child's talents or interests. If the child looks interested in football or music, facilitation to join the football club or a music school. Oriented activities such as this is more useful, channeled his interest in a proper way.

3. Lack of good communication.
Children who lack good communication with parents have a tendency to always play outside the home. Parents who always blame the child, criticized, banned, and so on, or parents who fought constantly, this will make the child feel comfortable, so there is opportunity out, he will use it. The danger, if the child is happier outside the home, he could fall in unhealthy relationships and even drugs.
Solution: Try the approach in children, while casually talking to why he always wanted to play outside the home. Make this conversation as a casual conversation; do not blame the child or cornering. If he does not stand up to blaze with the situation at home, do not be angry, be self-introspection, do the repairs so that children feel at home again. If necessary, involve experts, in this case a psychologist, to help people find a way out.

4. Character of the child support.
Certain characters, such as, children with kinesthetic intelligence, generally can not be told to stay home, he liked the broad field of activities. So it felt like to always play outside.
Solution: Look for activities that are beneficial to overcome the excess. Such as by listing them in sports clubs or extracurricular activities at school. Do not get because parents do not realize this, that there is actually a fight every day with the kids, because they feel the child continued to play outdoors, is not willing to learn, and so forth.

5. No friends at home.
Children who are always alone in the house, but living in an environment where many children her own age, are more likely to be tempted to play with. Every day after school or evening he heard the other children busy playing outside, he inevitably comes into play.
Solution: Prohibit the child from the house at all is definitely not a wise choice. Should provide clear rules or limits, how long should play, any day, combine with other solutions such as tutoring include or incorporate it into the club.