Monday, July 30, 2012

5 Ways to Express Love to your Children



It is appropriate child receives outpouring of love from their parents. And, there are many ways to show love for children. According to psychologist Rustika Thamrin, love can not be said with words, but also with body language such as touch and deeds. However, the need for consistency to express feelings of love, so that children can develop positive self attitude in him.


According Windya, there are several ways you can do to express feelings of love on your children.

1. Accompanied by a touch
Never stop expressing love to your children. As much as possible accompanied by a gentle touch, hugs, and kisses. For example, "My dear boy!" while stroking the child's head, or "My dear, I love you so much," kissing and hugging the child. Behavior and what the old man does will make children feel deeply loved by his parents.

2. Say it softly
When expressing affection for children, say the words gentle and sincere as possible. Although still small, but in fact the children are very sensitive to the sincerity of his parents. Children can learn the meaning of the sincere words of love through body language or his parents.

3. Caress before bed or while traveling
Upon parting with the child, for example, when you will go left at home, or before bed, as much as possible to convey your affection as she gave him a caress or a kiss. This will give confidence to the children that they are loved, and you will always be there for them. In addition, words of affection and caresses it also serves to provide safe and comfortable feeling to them.

4. Intense communication
Reassure your child through the actions that you and your family loving each other. Ensure that children also feel compassion as part of an intact family. This will assure the child that they loved, and protect them from the wrong crowd.

5. Consistent
Realize a sense of affection and love for children is consistently, though he made a mistake. It is not meant to justify the mistakes done. If the child made a mistake, give him an understanding that what he was doing was wrong with a soft but firm tone. Reassure him that although he made a mistake, you will still love her.

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